Questions about the Book:
- In the first third of the book, did you think Nick was guilty? Why or why not?
- In the second part of the book, once you know the truth, what did you think was going to happen with Nick and Amy?
- Do you think someone could actually plan every detail of a set up or murder as perfectly as Amy did?
- What did you expect to happen after Amy returned? Were you
surprised by her "final precaution?" Do you think that would truly be
enough to get Nick to stay?
- Early on in the book, Amy writes in her diary: "Because isn't that the point of every relationship: to be known by someone else, to be understood?" (29).
Toward the end of the book, on the night of Amy's return, when she is
making the case for going forward together, here is what she says and
Nick thinks:
"'Think about it, Nick, we know each other. Better than anyone in the world now.'
It was true that I'd had this feeling too, in the past month, when I
wasn't wishing Amy harm. It would come to me at strange moments--in the
middle of the night, up to take a piss, or in the morning pouring a bowl
of cereal--I'd detect a nib of admiration, and more than that, fondness
for my wife, right in the middle of me, right in the gut. To know
exactly what I wanted to hear in those notes, to woo me back to her,
even to predict all my wrong moves...the woman knew me cold...All this
time I'd thought we were strangers, and it turned out we knew each other
intuitively, in our bones, in our blood" (385).
To what extent do you think the desire to be understood drives
relationships? Do you understand how this could be appealing to Nick
despite everything else?
- Nick stops strangling Amy and thinks, "Who would I be
without Amy to react to? Because she was right: As a man, I had been my
most impressive when I loved her -- and I was my next best self when I
hated her...I couldn't return to an average life" (396).
Is this believable? Is it possible for Nick to be more fulfilled in an
extraordinary relationship where he is understood even if it is
manipulative an dangerous?
Questions about Life & Marriage Raised by the Book:
- Nick once muses, "It seemed to me that there was nothing new
to be discovered ever again...We were the first human beings who would
never see anything for the first time. We stare at the wonders of the
world, dull-eyed, underwhelmed. Mona Lisa, the Pyramids, the Empire State Building.
Jungle animals on attack, ancient icebergs collapsing, volcanoes
erupting. I can't recall a single amazing thing I have seen firsthand
that I didn't immediately reference to a movie or TV show...I've
literally seen it all, and the worst thing, the thing that makes me want
to blow my brains out, is: The secondhand experience is always better.
The image is crisper, the view keener, the camera angle and soundtrack
manipulate my emotions in a way reality can't anymore" (72).
Do you think this observation is true about our generation? How do you
think this affects relationships? How does it affect the way we live?
- Nick writes,"I got secretly furious, spent ten minutes just
winding myself up -- because at this point of our marriage, I was so
used to being angry with her, it felt almost enjoyable, like gnawing on a
cuticle: You know you should stop, that it doesn't really feel as good
as you think, but you can't quit grinding away" (107).
Have you experienced this dynamic? Why do you think it feels good to be angry sometimes?
- At one point, Amy quotes the advice "Fake it until you make it." Later, Nick writes, "We
pretend to be in love, and we do the things we like to do when we're in
love, and it feels almost like love sometimes, because we are so
perfectly putting ourselves through the paces" (404).
Generally speaking, do you think this is good marriage advice? Do Nick and Amy disprove this advice?
- Rate Gone Girl on a scale of 1 to 5.
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1. Consider Amy and Nick Dunne as characters. Do you find them
sympathetic...at first? Talk about the ways each reveals him/herself
over the course of the novel. At what point do your sympathies begin to
change (if they do)?
2. Nick insists from the beginning he had
nothing to do with Amy's disappearance. Did you believe him, initially?
When did you begin to suspect that he might have something to do with
it? At what point did you begin to think he might not?
3. How
would you describe the couple's marriage? What does it look like from
the outside...and what does it look like from the inside? Where do the
stress lines fall in their relationship?
4. On their fifth
anniversary, Nick wonders, "What have we done to each other? What will
we do?" Is that the kind of question that might present itself in any
marriage? Yours? In other words, does this novel make you wonder about
your own relationship? And can you ever truly know the other person?
5.
Amy and Nick lie. When did you begin to suspect that the two were lying
to one another...and to you, the reader? Why do they lie...what do they
gain by it?
6. Do you find the Gillian Flynn's technique of
alternating first-person narrations compelling...or irritating. Would
you have preferred a single, straightforward narrator? What does the
author gain by using two different voices?
7. A skillful mystery
writer knows which details to reveal and when to reveal them. How much
do you know...and when do you know it? In other words, how good is Flynn
at burying her clues in plain sight? Now that you know how the story
plays out, go back and pick out the clues she left behind for you.
8. Flynn divides her narrative into two parts. Why? What are the difference between the two sections?
9. In what way does Amy's background—her parents' books about her perfection—affect her as an adult?
10. The Dunnes move to North Carthage, near Hannibal, the home of Mark Twain. How has
Tom Sawyer been worked into
Gone Girl...and why? What does that extra-textual detail add to the story?
11. Did you suspect Nick's big secret? Were you surprised—shocked—by it? Or did you have an inkling?
12.
Does Amy try hard enough to like North Carthage? Or is she truly a duck
out of water, too urbane to ever fit into a small, Midwestern town?
13. What are Amy's treasure hunts all about? Why does she initiate them for Nick?
14.
Critics, to a one, talk about the book's dark humor and author's wit.
What passages of the book do you find particularly funny?
15. Movie time: who would you like to see play what part?
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1. Do you like Nick or Amy? Did you find yourself picking a side? Do you
think the author intends for us to like them? Why or why not?
2. Does the author intend for us to think of Nick or Amy as the
stronger writer? Do you perceive one or the other as a stronger writer,
based on their narration/journal entries? Why?
3. Do you think Amy and Nick both believe in their marriage at the outset?
4. Nick, ever conscious of the way he is being perceived, reflects on
the images that people choose to portray in the world—constructed,
sometimes plagiarized roles that we present as our personalities.
Discuss the ways in which the characters—and their opinions of each
other—are influenced by our culture’s avid consumption of TV shows,
movies, and websites, and our need to fit each other into these roles.
5. Discuss Amy’s false diary, both as a narrative strategy by the
author and as a device used by the character. How does the author use it
to best effect? How does Amy use it?
6. What do you make of
Nick’s seeming paranoia on the day of his fifth anniversary, when he
wakes with a start and reports feeling,
You have been seen?
7. As experienced consumers of true crime and tragedy, modern
“audiences” tend to expect each crime to fit a specific mold: a story, a
villain, a heroine. How does this phenomenon influence the way we judge
news stories? Does it have an impact on the criminal justice system?
Consider the example of the North Carthage police, and also Tanner
Bolt’s ongoing advice to Nick.
8. What is Go’s role in the book? Why do you think the author wrote her as Nick’s twin? Is she a likable character?
9. Discuss Amy’s description of the enduring myth of the “cool
girl”—and her conviction that a male counterpart (seemingly flawless to
women) does not exist. Do you agree? Why does she assume the role if she
seems to despise it? What benefit do you think she derives from the
act?
10. Is there some truth to Amy’s description of the
“dancing monkeys”—her friends’ hapless partners who are forced to make
sacrifices and perform “sweet” gestures to prove their love? How is this
a counterpoint to the “cool girl”?
11. What do you think of
Marybeth and Rand Elliott? Is the image they present sincere? What do
you think they believe about Amy?
12. How does the book deal
with the divide between perception and reality, or between public image
and private lives? Which characters are most skillful at navigating this
divide, and how?
13. How does the book capture the feel of
the recession—the ending of jobs and contraction of whole industries;
economic and geographical shifts; real estate losses and abandoned
communities. Are some of Nick and Amy’s struggles emblematic of the time
period? Are there any parts of the story that feel unique to this time
period?
14. While in hiding, Amy begins to explore what the
“real” Amy likes and dislikes. Do you think this is a true exploration
of her feelings, or is she acting out yet another role? In these
passages, what does she mean when she refers to herself as “I” in
quotes?
15. What do you think of Amy’s quizzes—and “correct”
answers—that appear throughout the book? As a consistent thread between
her
Amazing Amy childhood and her adult career, what does her
quiz-writing style reveal about Amy’s true personality and her
understanding of the world?
16. Do Nick and Amy have friends?
Consider Nick’s assurance that Noelle was deluded in her claims of
friendship with Amy, and also the friends described in Amy’s journal.
How “real” are these friendships? What do you think friendship means to
each of them?
17. What was the relationship between Amy and
Nick’s father? Do you think the reader is meant to imagine conversations
between the two of them? Why does Nick’s father come to Nick and Amy’s
home?
18. Amy publicly denounces the local police and
criticizes their investigation. Do you think they did a good job of
investigating her disappearance? Were there real missteps, or was their
failing due to Amy’s machinations?
19. Do you believe Amy truly would have committed suicide? Why does she return?
20. Were you satisfied with the book’s ending? What do you think the future holds for Nick, Amy, and their baby boy?
